Meet the husband!

I have written almost about everyone who are near and dear to me on my blog, but never dedicated any post for my dearest hubby. When I used to write posts for ‘Thank you Fridays’, he used to always ask me “when are you thanking me”? I used to reply, “Why do I have to say it on the blog, don’t you know that? Isn’t it understood?”

Well I don’t think it works that way, instead of assuming, I should express that. How can I not dedicate a post to someone, who has dedicated his entire life to me? Isn’t it totally unfair?

Here I go with this post dedicated to my lovely husband Niranjan- spotless/pure that’s what it means. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me! I was waiting for an opportunity to dedicate a post for very long time, and now is the appropriate time. This is his home coming gift. It’s been three years that he was away from home. Finally, god has shown some mercy on us.

What can I say about him?

There is so much that I will fall short of words. He is one simple, sweet, patient, humorous, practical, boundlessly energetic, optimist, independent, highly disciplined person. I was impressed with him from the day I first met him! I was always cynical about arranged marriages. I was apprehensive about how the person would be, how I would live my entire life with someone whom I hardly know. My uneasiness was cleared once I met him and had a long discussion about everything under the sun. The very same day we decided that we can take the next step into our relation. After six months of courtship we decided to tie the knot. It’s been four long years and we are happily married. That’s how we met.

Sometimes I marvel about, how are we even together, when we have so many differences.He is a sane person while I am totally insane. He is calm and composed while I am unruly and hot-headed. He has so much patience while I am totally impatient. He has good control on his emotions while I cry at the drop of a hat. He always analyzes the situations while I make decisions in haste. He loves actions movies while I like romantic ones. He is a fitness freak while I consider exercising is punishment. I guess, as per the quantum theory, opposite poles always attract each other. We like & love each other because of the differences we have with each other. I am so grateful to him for everything that he has done to me. I have no words to explain my feelings. All I can say is that my life is incomplete without him.

Niranjan,

I truly, deeply missed you every single day. I can't tell you how I spent these three years without you (I know, it was a struggle for you as well). I am glad that you are back and put the smile on my face.

What I missed the most was your absence on festival days, weekends, trips, lonely nights, and whenever I saw couples together. What I enjoyed the most was bitter-sweet fights, lengthy-late-night phone conversations. What I hated the most was the days when you packed your bags, kissed good-byes and I watched you outside the airport. What I never want to see again is, not to stay away from you and shed anymore tears thinking about you.

When I look back, I know that we have missed quite a lot of things. Nonetheless, what I foresee is the good times ahead of us. The distance between us has helped us to grow our relationship even stronger. I am confident there is something good in store for us.

Love you forever :-)